{"id":192,"date":"2011-11-03T22:40:09","date_gmt":"2011-11-04T03:40:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.deaconlarry.org\/blog\/?p=192"},"modified":"2011-11-03T22:40:09","modified_gmt":"2011-11-04T03:40:09","slug":"learning-to-recognize-our-own-faults","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.deaconlarry.org\/blog\/?p=192","title":{"rendered":"Learning to Recognize Our Own Faults"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Thursday of the 31st Week in Ordinary Time<\/o:o:p><\/span><\/h2>\n

Rom 14: 7-12; Lk 15: 1-10<\/span><\/h2>\n

Dc. Larry Brockman<\/o:o:p><\/h3>\n

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It is so easy.\u00a0 <\/span>It is so easy to see the sins of the other guy, and yet be blind to our own weaknesses.\u00a0 <\/span>We see other people gossiping; other people cheating; other people misbehaving; but we can be blind to our gossiping or cutting corners or acting up; or else we quickly and conveniently forget what we have done.\u00a0 <\/span>And it is both the little things in life and the big things. <\/o:o:p><\/font><\/p>\n

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You see, all those habits and patterns of life that we settle into can sometimes be so obviously imperfect to another person, and yet, we just don\u2019t see them.\u00a0 <\/span>We learn to live with them- even grow into them.\u00a0 <\/span>For example, all of us know that we should eat the proper foods to be healthy and keep our proper weight.\u00a0 <\/span>And yet which of us is above commenting that so and so is fat; or so and so is skinny, when we should take a good hard look at ourselves. <\/o:o:p><\/font><\/p>\n

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Why do we dwell on other people\u2019s faults?\u00a0 <\/span>Is it because it makes us feel better about ourselves?\u00a0 <\/span>Is it because it distracts attention away from our own faults?\u00a0 <\/span>And yet, it is a good image of ourselves that we all need.\u00a0 <\/span>Paul hits the nail on the head this morning when he says- \u201cAll of us will need to give an accounting of our own behavior before God when we meet him\u201d.\u00a0 <\/span>We won\u2019t have an opportunity to say:\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cWell what about John, isn\u2019t he a lot worse\u201d.\u00a0 <\/span>No, the attention will be on your own sins.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/o:o:p><\/font><\/p>\n

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You know, today\u2019s Gospel makes an important point about all this- that there is more rejoicing in heaven about a repentant sinner than about a righteous person.\u00a0 <\/span>It is not so much that God and his angels and saints won\u2019t rejoice over a truly righteous person.\u00a0 <\/span>But more that \u201crighteous\u201d is in the eye of the beholder.\u00a0 <\/span>You and I, the average beholders, do a pretty good job at recognizing sinners; and maybe not so good a job in detecting the righteous.\u00a0 <\/span>How so?\u00a0 <\/span>Well, a repentant sinner in today\u2019s society can be persecuted beyond belief.\u00a0 <\/span>Let me give some examples:\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cHe was an alcoholic\u201d; \u201cShe had an affair\u201d; \u201cHe lied on his application\u201d.\u00a0 <\/span>And yet, how righteous is the person who hides, yet holds onto, his or her addition to alcohol or drugs; or keeps up an illicit affair; or conceals the lies he tells?\u00a0 <\/span>It is our own lives that we need concern ourselves with- not others.\u00a0 <\/span><\/o:o:p><\/font><\/p>\n

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Paul says \u201cWhether we are alive or dead, we must live our lives for the Lord if we are to enter the Kingdom of God.\u201d\u00a0 <\/span>And that task is worthy of 100% of our time.\u00a0 <\/span>We really don\u2019t have the time for being our neighbor\u2019s conscience.\u00a0 <\/span>Soon we will enter the season of Advent to prepare for the coming of Christ.\u00a0 <\/span>That includes the coming of the Christ Child- \u00a0<\/span>but it also includes the second coming of Christ.\u00a0 <\/span>That could be any time for any of us.\u00a0 <\/span>So, let\u2019s get real about our own sinfulness.\u00a0 <\/span>Turn and look at yourself in the mirror.\u00a0 <\/span>What is it that you are hiding?\u00a0 <\/span>What is it that you are missing about yourself?\u00a0 <\/span>What is it that you are kidding yourself about?\u00a0 <\/span>Because when you stand before God, what will you say about all of that.\u00a0 <\/span><\/o:o:p><\/font><\/p>\n

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